life : how i see it

life has so much to offer.. we are blessed with so many things in life.. things that we often, as a normal human being, forget and take them for granted.. we wish we could have them all.. but the reality is, we simply wont.. but that doesnt mean we cant aim high and be ambitious about anything.. 

1 person cannot have evrything, or else, there wont be anough for the 2nd person.. and in this world, there are definitely more than just 2 persons living.. how often do we look back and be grateful of what we already have? relative to the time we spend looking at things that we dont have or yet to achieve? human, in its nature are prone to chase things and wanting more and more everytime..seriously, no one is excluded from this theory.. but logically, if people can have whatever they want anytime anywhere, people will keep asking for more and more until there is practically nothing left and more to achieve..then people will start wanting the whole world to him or herself or possibly wanting to be God.. remeber, there is always reason beneath everything..

we might not get what we want all the time but we are able to achieve what we want.. which comes with efforts.. again, human in its nature, when left with options to do the right thing or easy thing, we often choose the easy thing.. which in the end wont sound as easy.. trust me.. i do believe that if we want something, we need to execute such efforts that worth the things that we want.. if we want more, we simply have to work more.. and remember, always be grateful of what we already have.. yes, some people are born with so many things and they dont even have to work hard for it and yes, we often compare ourselves with these kind of people.. but remember, the existence of these lucky people doesnt mean we are unlucky.. we are equally lucky but in different sense.. the sense that again, in our nature, oftenly took for granted..

always believe that we will achieve what we want when we put efforts in it.. a pretty girl once argued this with me, saying that as we are young and still studying, how far can the efforts be executed anyway? due to hectic schedule, there is simply no way to put more efforts and student's life is practically full of limitations.. so she was forced to just give up and accept everything.. 1 MAJOR mistake, its good to finally accept who you are and that you might not getwhat you want everytime, but it is so wrong to give up.. when i mention 'effort' , it doesnt directly refers to hard labour work.. 

remember, life is a process, what u do now determine what u will do next and therefore directly determine what u will achieve.. if we are still studying, then study hard, be successful, get good jobs and we are able to shower the future with things that we always dreamed of and probably more.. i repeat, MORE.. but, such process that we commonly called 'life' requires time.. be patience.. some people would argue, "hey, i cant wait long for what i want because i want it now..", haha.. yup2. agree.. but remember this 2 points. 1) if u get everything now, then there will be nothing left to achieved in the future.. 2) if u get everything as easy as that, there wont be as high in value to what u achieved with efforts and patience.. 

life in our own view defers.. pretty or ugly is solely depend on how u choose to see it.. i might not be financially blessed so far, but i will one day be a rich, happy and humble doctor.. notice the word 'happy' and 'humble'? well, that i achieved through hardwork and experiences, through laughter and tears.. and say if i achieve what i want now, those 2 words might not be familliar..

i am happy as i am, blessed with a great family, a loving and extremely cute girl (she usually hates it when i say that).. and that i am able to study and live my life..